A Sudden Ultimatum in a 11-Year Marriage
I've been married for 11 years and together with my wife for 14 years, with two kids. Recently, she revealed that she's been sexually dissatisfied for the past seven years, giving me an ultimatum: agree to an open marriage or end it.
Her announcement came as a shock, with no prior indication of her dissatisfaction or interest in an open relationship. I've suggested couples' therapy, but she's dismissed the idea.
Well, it seems like you can agree to the open marriage or end it. That sounds like an ultimatum to me.
The surprising nature of her statement is what's most disturbing, as typically there would be some conversation leading up to such a significant decision.
Author's summary: Marriage faces unexpected ultimatum.